True or false - it takes 21 days to form a habit? Sorry, but it’s just not true. The 21-day myth started when the work of a 1960’s plastic surgeon (Dr. Maxwell Maltz) was misquoted, and so it stuck. The reality is it takes much longer, and there are three phases – the honeymoon, the fight through, and finally second nature. In developing negotiation as a habit, we can expect the same phases of getting excited about the benefits, being frustrated when the other side is difficult, and finally where its just the way you do things.
Negotiation normally brings to mind major transactions with customers and suppliers, selling an asset, negotiating a mortgage, or discussing your salary. The reality is that we all negotiate everyday, from what we will have for dinner, to bedtime for children. So if we develop negotiation as a habit in our daily life, its a safe bet to expect that it starts to become the way we approach major home or work negotiations.
Put simply, negotiation is reaching agreement through conversation. While it gets considerably more complicated given the human dimension, the process of negotiation can be summarised as looking at interests rather than positions, separating the person from the problem, considering alternatives (BATNA), taking a problem solving approach, and then trading away what is less important in return for what is important. So next time you are tempted to reach straight for power or authority, take a second to think whether there is a better way to reach agreement by checking your assumptions. Like the 21-day myth, we sometimes get it wrong.
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Not everyone needs to be an English professor but one sure way to diminish your professionalism in the eyes of your staff, customers or prospects reading what you’ve written is poor business-writing basics. Communication is the single most critical element in engaging people. In an age of text-speak and consulting jargon, one sure way to stand out positively from the crowd and noise is clear, simple, and persuasive written communication skills.
I’ve had several books published, as well as being a regular columnist in industry media. I watch with amazement at professional proofers doing their job. Neither you nor I need to have that level of skill and precision, but we can all improve our results and lessen our regrets by following a few simple principles. I’m not calling them ‘rules’. The thing with English is that every time you have a rule, you soon find many exceptions. I before E anyone?
I met one trainee who ran a clothing boutique. They’d sent out a mailbox drop in their neighbourhood promoting their latest fashion arrivals. Their intention was to communicate that many of the shoes matched up nicely with many of the trousers on offer. They referred to this matching as, “These shoes are complimentary with these pants”. Unfortunately, what they meant was, “These shoes are complementary with these pants”. You see, one of those words means ‘matching’ but the other one means ‘free’.
Write from the reader’s point of view
Are you including information useful and relevant to the reader or just brain dumping to get it out of your head or make you look like an expert? They don’t have time to read everything and there is a lot of competition for their attention. How often are you using the words “you” and “your” compared to “me”, “my” and “I”?
Ambiguity is the enemy
I saw a billboard advertising ice cream that was, “97% fat-free and gluten-free”. Can a gluten-intolerant person eat that ice cream? It’s ambiguous. I saw a magazine cover, “Rachel Ray loves cooking her family and her dog”. How do her family and dog feel about this?
If in doubt, leave it out
If you’re not sure, how can you be sure they’re sure? If you can’t explain to me where and why you might use the word ‘whom’, then don’t use that word.
Less is more
Do I need to expand this? I hope not.
What is the purpose of your document? Is it to sell, influence, or inform? Should that one email be three emails instead? Check all your ideas that you might include back against the over-riding purpose of the document. If it isn’t working for your purpose, it’s working against it. Leave it out or append it.
In jest, I often recommend having a13-year old around of slightly above average intelligence. They can test your writing for reader-centricity, clarity, efficiency and meaning. If you don’t have access to such a resource, have you ever run readability statistics over your documents? You can find this function in your word-processing apps usually in the same menu as spellchecker. Not everyone needs to write for a 13-year old, but the stats can give you a feel for the consistent level you should be writing for and when you’re off-track.
Not every document matters, but if it matters, it really matters. Use fresh eyes and have others check your writing and you reciprocate. If you have multiple people contributing to a single document such as a proposal, then make one person in charge of sorting consistency.
Better engagement via better communication leads to increased productivity and revenue. Let’s write right!
As mentioned above, on my recent trip to Dallas, Texas, I met up with Steve Napolitano who is a great speaker, trainer and business coach working out of San Francisco. In the many discussions that we had, there were a number of things that we talked about in terms of what we were seeing as challenges for our clients and how they were overcoming these. Steve works with a lot of high-end, very successful corporate clients that spend a lot of their time travelling both nationally and internationally and can be very pushed for time. One of the key techniques he uses to help these clients is to get them to get a very clear vision of exactly what a successful life for them would look like both professionally and personally. He then tips the equation on its head and asks them to put into his diary all of the things that would be important to them. They then diarise these first, and by doing this, making them put all of their business commitments and business environments into the time that is remaining. Obviously this can be challenging at first in getting an idea of how to make this work, but one of the key things that he noticed that he did, was making his clients very disciplined around how much time they were going to allocate for work and what they were going to achieve in that timeframe. This concept has certainly been a challenge for me because I think a lot of the time we develop businesses where we will allocate as much time as we possibly can to create our success. Imagine we could build that success but only in the time that we were able to allocate where all of the other lifestyle components were going to be just as important.
This month, please consider having a look at your diary, having a look at the time you have allocated for your work commitments and challenge yourself that you can replace some of these with lifestyle or family opportunities and let’s see if we can condense and use the time that we have allocated for work far more efficiently and profitably.
One business owner I met this week was concerned about his team negotiating by phone or email, rather than taking the time to have face-to-face meetings. Under time pressure, there is a huge temptation to pick up the phone or email to progress a deal, but the tradeoff is a loss in 3 key areas of negotiation – feedback, focus and flexibility.
Feedback to a proposal is often communicated by a person’s body language, and without that feedback we can’t judge the best next step. The focus of a meeting is far better than on the phone or emailing where there are more distractions. And flexibility is needed in a give-and-take negotiation, where both sides try to problem-solve and meet their interests. Emails aren’t flexible, and can be recipes for disaster in a negotiation as they tend to state a fixed position.
So following my own advice, if you want to improve your financial performance by up-skilling your team’s negotiation skills, then let me know (by phone or email) and happy to meet up over a coffee to discuss how I can help.
I visited a presentation this week and listened to a room full of energetic people with many years’ experience listening intently to how their chosen field of work was going to get harder unless they changed. I also noticed how they produced their own marketing material through their own means and not using a skilled practitioner. Most of what they do is marketing, yet marketing for themselves had been left alone.
The biggest message from that day was that “if you stay the same, and not evolve, you will get left behind”
Many people don’t know where to start when it comes to personal branding. To help you out I wanted to give you some guidelines on how to structure your personal branding. Here are Six Steps to improve your personal branding. These can be reviewed at any time and don’t need to be completed in order.
Establish your purpose as an expert
Embrace and expand your STORY.
Explore your competitors as you build your brand
Show Localness & Profile Photos
Craft your individual Branding statement
BE DIGITALLY discoverable as a BRAND
If you want to know more, please don’t hesitate to contact me – I’m happy to connect with you and listen to your story.
Having a group of people within your business who are all specialists in their areas, is key. Recruiting for these specific people, requires us to be asking the right questions: Here are 6 key questions to ask at your interview:
Give me an example of how you’ve showed initiative and what was the result?
How have you created change in your last role?
Give me your definition of High Performance?
How have you created an amazing customer experience for a past client?
As a member of a High Performing Team, taking responsibility and problem solving is critical. Give me examples of how you’ve done this.
Where do you see your current skills fitting in this role and how can they be developed and complement the team?
Creating the structure for your High Performing team involves having role overviews, establishing expectations, having an activity plan, accountability training and skill development.
If you need assistance creating your EBU or want help motivating your existing team or creating structure, systems and processes, give us a call.
On the 1st Jan 2019 the Anti-Money Laundering and Countering Financing of Terrorism Act (AML/CFT) for Real Estate agents comes into force.This is a critical piece of legislation that brings with it severe penalties of up to $5 million in fines and jail time. It is imperative that you meet your requirements by the due date to avoid prosecution.
Therefore, it is critically important to ensure your team has undergone a base-level of training in understanding their obligations and requirements. As part of our ongoing support for real estate offices in NZ, we have partnered with Strategi Group, who are recognised as compliance leaders in this space. Working alongside Strategi, we have Cat Levine to provide your office with 3 key options.
In-office Team Session: Understanding your compliance requirements as an individual agent. This session is to make you aware of the risks of money laundering faced by your agency and how the salespeople should respond when confronted with such risks.
Supply of a company manual, templates and checklists in order for you to create compliance with legislation.
In-house risk assessment, where we work with you to create a risk management program and support the implementation across the business.
To find out more and then book your team session, give us a call on 0800 800 303 or email firstname.lastname@example.org
Another successful AREC (Australian Real Estate Conference) was held last week on the Gold Coast and over 3000 Real Estate agents descended upon Broadbeach eager to hear from a myriad of speakers on how to improve their game, stand out from the crowd, grow their business and evolve with the times. Whilst there was a lot of information to take in, the message on how to be successful was clear;BE THE TRUSTED ADVISOR – know your market, be professional and focus on your clients to create trust and credibility. STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD – your marketing, image, brand and service delivery matters now, more than ever and EMBRACE TECHNOLOGY – are you progressing or preventing?
The Real Estate industry is changing and rather than fight the change, it’s time to embrace it! With the help of my team of consultants who are experts in their chosen fields, we have the skill and knowledge to arm you with the tools needed to become a powerful industry force. Stop struggling – reach out to those who can help you stand out from the crowd, create and implement systems to boost your business, generate business growth and gain the success you deserve.
How ordinary people achieve extraordinary results…
and I don’t just mean ‘being positive’, you need to find your purpose and your passion and focus on raising the standard of your delivery. Do you embrace a challenge or avoid it? Do you keep going when you get a setback – or give up easily? Do you learn from criticism or take it personally? Mind blockages or having a fixed mindset affect your ability to achieve and succeed – so form a plan and have a clear vision of what you want to achieve. Look around you at those who are successful – they are usually positive, go-getters who see a setback as a challenge and keep going!It is important to create a balanced life and make time for the things that make you smile – spending time with family and friends and having some ‘me’ time is crucial to ensure you are surrounding yourself with an environment to live a fulfilling life. You’ve got to create a lifestyle .. not a job.We are fortunate to have a number of excellent coaches on board to assist you with getting your mindset on the path to success – give us a call today on 0800 800 303 to book in a session with either myself, Mark Sutherland, Steve Gurney or Mike Allsop.